My name is Lyle Merner, and I am 38 years old. I live in British Columbia, Canada with my beautiful wife, Gabriela and our four children. In October 2005, I was diagnosed with ALS, and since then the disease has been progressing through my limbs. My mobility and physical activity has been limited. I now rely on equipment and people to get around. With little hope for treatment in North America, I have decided to take my journey with ALS to Beijing. There, I will be visiting with a doctor who will perform an operation that has helped some patients stop the progression of ALS, and even return some mobility. I leave for China October 19th, 2006 for one month. Through this blog, I will share with you my feelings, experiences, and progress.
An Update from Lyle’s Family, May 2007
Lyle was diagnosed with ALS eighteen months ago. Within six months he needed a walker to get around; two months later he was confined to a wheel chair. And just a few month’s ago he became bed ridden. Like many other ALS patients, Lyle lost the use of his legs within the first two years of onset….just like the stats say. Lyle’s condition has progressed very aggressively right from the beginning – leaving no time to adapt to the on-going changes in his mobility and his daily life. This is the worst type of ALS – one that never slows down, or shows any mercy. The worst part of it all – there is nothing we can do to stop it.This is a very sad personal story of a young man in his prime, who’s life is being taken away; and for our family it means losing a wonderful husband and father, brother and son. It is truly the most difficult thing we have ever experienced.
But seeing Lyle’s amazing spirit and strength everyday is what has gotten us through this very difficult time. He is a very compassionate, caring individual with many friends and family members who support him. Lyle has always been the kind of person to help anyone in need ~ and not surprisingly so many people have stepped up to help us. Thank you all so very much – from our hearts.
During the past eighteen months, Lyle, our family and friends have all HOPED for so much.
We HOPED for Lyle’s ALS to be slow progressing maybe even stop on its own.
We HOPED and tried to find anything anywhere which could stop the progression of ALS – even put the word out to people on every continent.
We HOPED a treatment Lyle received in China would stop it or slow it down.
But we didn’t succeed, and like many other families inflicted with ALS who have been down similar paths – we felt “beaten” by the disease. We try and take some comfort in knowing we tried – and now our HOPE lies in that a cure will be found soon.
This Walk for ALS, like the many around the country, represents for us a real chance at finding a cure. We know all too well that it is research that will allow the medical community to succeed in this tremendous challenge. We also know how very difficult it is for all ALS patients and their families – and how having resources such as the ALS Society is critical to their survival until that cure is found. We can’t say enough of what they have done for Lyle and our family, except that they have our support always.
A father and son should have a future together – and that’s why our family is “Walking for ALS”. We love you Lyle!
With all of our love,
Gaby (your wife), Omar, Danny, Monica and Ethan (your children)
And All of your family and friends around the world!
My prayers are with you Lyle. God speed with your recovery.
all the best
Catherine and Natalie Strachan
Lyle and family,
May the Light shine upon your path and bless you all with the power of Faith, Strenght, Hope and Love.
Our prayers are with you on your voyage to the distant land of China and as you deal with this great challenge that Life has bestowed upon You.
You are an inspiration to us all as a father, a friend and a shoulder of support. We are blessed to know you.
All my Love goes to you.
Yuanih
Hello Lyle,
My friend Steve C. forwared me your info and after reading the website I have more information regarding ALS. You are a very brave person who I admire so much !
I enjoy the photos and daily journal entries and look forward to ready about a speedy recovery.
Thank you for allowing me the priviledge of sharing this very important event in your life.
warmest wishes to you Lyle.
cheers
Michael Lonsdale
My prayers are with you daily. My mother was diagnosed in 1953, there was very little done for her at that time. I am amazed at your progress!! Keep positive keep tapping into your energery resourses the mind is a very powerful tool. Keep up the good work, many many good energy is being sent your way.
I worked with your Mom – she was known as my “Barbie Doll” Susan gave me the link to your journey, you wil come out a winner!
I so enjoyed the picutres and the journal enteries, I look forward to more. I keep a keen interest in the ALS progress as it hit to a person so close to my heart as well.
blessing showered on you,
Audrie Maki
Lyle ,
You did great job by writing on your experiences on such journey.
Everybody who curious about the stem cell treatment will learn to much things.
Get well please and make everyone pleased.
Best wishes ..
Alper from Turkey
PALS since 1990
Hello Lyle and family,
Long time no hear from. I am truly surprised to hear that you have ALS. It goes to show that life can change in an instant and what once was so important at one time, doesn’t mean much when good health is all that we want and need.
I wish you and your family a Merry Christmas and Happy 2007!
Good luck with your journey.
Rita Jay
Hello to you and your family,
I haven’t visited your website for some time. Just dropping in tonight to let you know people are thinking about you and send you our prayers.
Our love to you and your family.
I am not the guy you are related to….
Just googling my name and came across your site, I suppose because you have a relative that shares my name (tell him “what’s up!!).
Check out this website and do a youtube search about him. He has ALS, also. Very inspiring guy I have been acquainted with for years. He has no mobility but lives a very full and interesting life. Cheers….
http://www.jasonbecker.com
Hi Lyle: I’ve been looking at the Canadian PALS and viewed your blog. I’m in Victoria. You’ve had quite an adventure and been through a lot. I hope the treatments have been helpful in many ways and I look forward to updates. Blessings to you and your family.
hello, i am a 33 year old male, i was diagnosed with ALS also, in november 2004. i have a family of 4 children, live in ontario.
Dear Lyle,
This is Sams Father Samuel From Dubai,Sorry to here that u r on a ventilator.Sam is keeping Fine.By the grace of God his progress of the disease have stoped after the surgeory in China.Any way we are planning to visit the doctor in Aug 18/07.We are all praying for u. Luv & regrds to ur family.
Samuel.
Hi Lyle
I was also diagnosed with ALS in Mar of this year, 2007. It has been a roller coaster ride, for sure.
I find my strength and my hope in my relationship with God. I am believing that He will heal me and give me many more years. I’m 52 years old.
There is a place in Spokane Washington called the Healing Rooms. There are people there that pray night & day for healing for anyone that asks. The other day I found out about a woman who was in the final stages of ALS and God completely healed her. I have emails from her and have pictures of her so I know that it is true.
Would you let me give your name to them to pray for you? I pray that God will strengthen you and your family.
Thank you for being willing to share your story to help others.
Hi Lyle
Hope this message finds you as well as can be expected. I came across your website via google. As you are probably already aware, we both have the same surname. I am from a very large family of Merners that originate from London England(some of us are still in London). It seems to me that there are a lot of people in Cananda that have the same surname. Just wondered if we are related? If not we both share a great surname and I wish you all the best. You sound like a really positive guy, who despite everything leads a happy life. Would love to here from you regardless.
Best wishes
Diane Merner
I just looked up your website since reading about Lyle. I never knew details about this devastating desease. I feel very sorry about your loss!!! Thanks for sharing.
Sandy
Greetings Lyle,
My mother died from als 31 yrs ago and now my sister has been diagnosed. She has had symtoms for 1 1/2 yrs now and it started bulbar and just now progressing to her right hand fingers (my mother had limb als & they have determined my sisters is not familial.) I will pray for you ~ please do not give up hope and faith. I know too well how devastating this disease is. We must always have hope. This disease has robbed you of much but you still have a lot of blessings. I will pray very hard as i do for my sister. She is independant presently and has a wonderful spirit and beleives in the good Lord and that is helping her get thru a day at a time.
I will check back soon.
dear lyle ,
sory to hear tht lyle … we all r praying for you bro …tc bye
Both my son and daughter attend preschool with Ethan and I do remember greeting Lyle with his son many times while he was still able. Taylor went to Ethan’s b-day party and I had a wonderful conversation with such a warm and spirited man. I pray that all the family is managing as best as possible; no words can give the peace desired but hopefully a little glimmer of comfort in this difficult time. Thinking of you all.
Lyle,
I truley feel for you, my husband Jack also has ALS, He is also very young too,44. from Ohio
I wish you the best and keep reaching for the stars. Don’t give up. and keep your spirits High. We are both praying for you.
Michelle and Jack Hill